hmm . thinking about this more.

you could email him the 2 times and like 15 pages each.

Seriously though, you know when i call T and once when I gave her some things i wrote, we didn't talk about all of it. Some, admittedly I can't remember. But she did say that the phone calls are times when I can say things that are too hard to say in session so I believe she's fully aware of those things I said and wrote, but feels I'm not ready to talk about them unless I bring them up or we get to them in session. She wants the session to go in the direction I choose. She does not want to 'direct' the session and that would happen if she broght them up. I could say "let's talk about the phone call or the stuff I wrote" and she would then go from that point of me directing the session and talk about them. This has happened with a couple of the phone calls.

Just some thoughts.