I would be annoyed as eff if I thought the T was amping down / up the warmth blah blah based on how they read me. I like to believe I'm totally unpredictable and uniquely so

Former T classified me as avoidant and told me that her usual style -- non-emotional and cognitive -- was the reason I stuck around with her for so long rather than taking flight.

Current T is super ridiculously / intensely emotionally expressive (thankfully not in the let-me-take-care-of-you-and-rescue-you type of way though but more that she is just very open with her emotions, good or bad) -- not just with me but in general that's her style -- and while it freaks me out at times, it works well precisely because it gives me a sense of I dunno....how to deal with emotions and all that crap.