Hi MentalFloss!....Ask yourself this question, Will I be hurt if he does something like this again to me?...If the answer is YES, then dump him. This man has no natural empathy...for God sakes, your father died!!!!....This man is showing you how he will react to sensitive and difficult situations in life.....and life is filled with such situations. YOu need a friend, a companion, a soft place to fall....this man is made of stone from what you are telling us. Sorry, if I'm so down on him, but I'm calling it like I see it. Remember that there are many fish in the sea...don't settle for a deep sea creature!