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Originally Posted by sinking
Thank you so much for your words....
i dont think she understands why i keep feeling the same things. its as if she only saw what she wanted to see.... maybe because deep down she doesnt get me. i know she does her best, but i have felt misunderstood various times.
but now i dont know how to face this.... i hope we'll just go on as if i didnt say it.
i cannot change myself, she cannot change me... the only thing to work on here is about her understanding me but even if she does, it doesnt really change anything! so whats the point?
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It doesn't change anything right now, but you're still here, you're still fighting the battle. This is what matters. If you truly thinks she's unable to help, then find somebody else, but don't give up on yourself. Sometimes a change is beneficial, but this is up to you. I find that is hard for someone that never felt this way to understand, some people really never ever considered this thought so they struggle to get it. As long as they're trying and acting supportive, I guess it's okay.
I hope you will feel better.