Writing in from my weekend away--
Echoes,
Write her a letter! Mail it or not but write all you need to in a letter. Say everything you would have said on the machine.
I highly recommend it. I wrote one last week. Today, before I left home I was very anxious and somewhat flooding so I called T, left a message about what I was feeling and said I knew we wouldn't be talking but that I had these thoughts rolling around in my head so I was giving them to him!
Both the letter and the message really helped.
Best wishes and big hugs to all who are missing T.
Peace