Would you ever consider that? My t offered because one of my many issues is problems in my relationship with my wife and her refusal to go to couples counseling. My t is not offering to do couples counseling for us; she said it could be useful for her (t) to meet my wife and see us together for context. She likely would recommend counseling. If I were comfortable with it, t might even spend part of a session speaking one on one with my wife.

We have been married over 25 years. I can see how it would be very useful for my t to see us together and to talk to my wife alone.

It is probably a moot point because I would say the odds are about 5:1 that my wife won't do it. Her treatment of me the last few years is not something she would likely want to discuss openly. We have been little more than roommates and she has said something that makes it hard to believe there is any sort of future for us but then went back to day to day living like it was no big deal.