Sorry you went through that on that site. In a way, I know how this feels for you. I just posted about leaving a MH forum where I had been a contributing member for two years because it became too toxic for me.

I understand you may have mixed feelings about leaving, so perhaps just take a solid vacation from it and return when you feel rejuvenated and less angry? You have every right to be angry, and honestly, these ppl sound unhealthy to me to be spewing such hatred and anger, but I also understand you have lots of good things there too and lots of friends so it's harder. I am rambling... lol. Perhaps a vacation from the site will help. ((((hugs)))