One of the few things that I am thankful for with my T is that he's almost always maintained his boundaries. The times that he hasn't have been for good reason. It was obvious whatever those reasons were fell outside of the norm and would not be regular occurrences. We don't communicate outside of session unless it regards schedule or if he emails me resources with two exceptions. He's touched me twice when I was under extreme duress. Otherwise we don't touch.

I can't imagine how much of a mess I would be if his boundaries were squishy. I'm already desperately attached to him.