Thank you so much, and very sorry to hear you had bad experiences on other forums. :/ Hugs! I understand your anger...

You know, in thinking about it, mental health admin attracts even abusive people. The owner of this particular site has no business running a mental health website given how abusive she is to members. I almost want to write a bad online review about the experience, to warn other potential members of the toxicity.

I will monitor the stalking and may report it if it becomes too much. TY for the advice! Hugs again!