Hello,

I would like to have some advice, on how you start up again a new life, and new friends, new connections once you have decided to change and got rid of the people with whom things were complicated.
I have decided to cut some family members because I became aware of how they affected my well being. Those people just don't know about boundaries, respect and taking their responsibilities. They like to complain all the time and try to break you in your back because you don't think exactly like them.

After discovering this pattern in my family, I have seen it with me and how I allowed them to affect me (as I grew up in it), and into a lot of people that I considered as friend, therefore attracted into my life.

I have decided to change, therefore I cut ties with almost every body who didn't want to bother respecting my boundaries or with whom I felt that things went too far to keep any closeness.

At the beginning it was hard, now I accept it and try to live a better life.

What can I do to attract more quality people, with the same awareness as me. At least connect to new safe people.

I just have the impression that I have moved in a different place. What would you advise someone who is starting again from fresh?