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Old Sep 10, 2017, 05:20 AM
Anonymous40643
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First off, a HUGE kudos to you for making such a healthy and wise decision, AND for taking care of your own well being and mental health!!!!!! That is HUGE and an important step in your own growth. You will be far better off now and are moving in a great new direction. Hooray for you!!!! I am proud of you!

You can attract the right kinds of people by joining specific interest/activity groups, social meetups that match your interests and values, by taking an educational course or exercise class, by attending spiritual/church services or perhaps by joining groups that are available through the local church (if you are a spiritual type). You will still need to get to know people to test the waters with them and that takes time, but since you are well aware of boundary crossing issues, you are well on your way to healthier and improved relationship dynamics. One thing to remember is that toxic people are everywhere and no place is full proof of this, so you will still need to test the waters.

However, starting fresh in a new direction and meeting new, healthy-minded people is an exciting endeavor! Embrace this time, as it is a new YOU that you are forming, and according to how you want life to be. You're taking control of your life and your destiny. This is so great!!!! Keep us posted. ((((Big Hugs))))
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Lolina
Thanks for this!
Lolina