Hello, I just wanted to offer some help as to you and your boyfriend. First, though, I want to extend my condolences to you about your father's passing. Now, I must tell you that you did not deserve the lack of support during such a painful and vulnerable time.

Think about it this way, if he still does not acknowledge this disregard for your feelings now, then what is it going to be like during future difficult times.

I grew up with a father who all too often was physically, verbally, and mentally abusive. Most times he displayed such disregard during times of grief, with some little tokens of understanding mixed in. Bottom line, I feel you deserve someone who will be there no matter what. Isn't that one of the merits of a good relationship?

I hope that I didn't get carried away and I'm sorry if I may have been too direct. I just feel that one's true character comes out of someone when either they are alone with no one around or when times get rough.

Take care of yourself,

NewDawnFades