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Old Sep 10, 2017, 12:38 PM
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You are not wrong to feel like this. You have a right to your feelings. This issue to of supporting the in laws is a VERY important issue to address BEFORE you are married. It won't solve itself. The two of you have to reach an agreement about this. If it turns out that you are not ok with him sending him money to his family, you may have to rethink your choice of partner.

MY dysfunctional family would be perfectly happy for me to support them for the rest of their life. WHen I stopped it, I was suddenly "selfish, mean, heartless and greedy."
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