Hey Granite ,

I am glad that you had so many helpful replies , I wish I could give you some advice , but I can only tell you what I would do and that would not be the right thing to do.

If my T ever started shouting and blaming me for my prior actions or feelings , then that would be it , if my T blocked the door so I could not leave , I would move my T so that I could leave. I would never see that T again.

I would not call / e-mail / text , whatever , I would delete all history.

I would blank my now ex T , out of my head.

Like I said that would be the wrong thing to do , for several reasons , not getting into today.

Here is one course of action:

The next time you see your T , simply say "Hello and how are you today" , and get on with things.

Your T is not going to be expecting that , your T will be prepared for the next round.

Take that next round away , prove you are the better person.

Anyone can fight , but not everyone can stand. This will be your shining moment to prove your worth , and make your T think about how your T acted towards you.

If your T goes off the deep end again , just get up and thank your T for there time and say goodbye. If your T asked where are you going ? tell your T ,

I am going to live.

All my best ,

KP 

We as a strong community , even in our greatest times , have our own issues.

I have received much help in the 2 + months I have been a member , however as well intended as we all can be , we can not take the place of professional help.

But know this , you will always have help and support here , because we are family.

We got your back !!