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Originally Posted by satsuma
This has not happened to me, and I am very thankful it has not. I would absolutely not be able to cope with these kinds of changes from a T. I think it would be an absolute deal breaker and would have caused me to leave therapy, possibly for ever.
I know there are stories here of people who have had this situation and have somehow managed to work through it, and I admire their strength and courage.
My opinion is that if the boundaries change this is always a big mess-up on the part of the T. It should be up to them to know what they are able to cope with, and to hold the line and be consistent.
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Exactly! A T should keep consistent boundaries because changing boundaries can actually lead to emotional harm.
After what happened with my first T, I've totally felt different about therapy and now I have deeper trust issues and a lot of my current therapy has involved trying to heal from the damage of my first therapy. My Ex-T will never know how badly he hurt me.