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Originally Posted by Calilady
"What in the hell was that?!"
Have any of you (who have terminated with the therapist you were attached to) felt this way? One day, it was like the fog cleared and the veil lifted and all I could think was, "Damn, I was so enmeshed in that!"
Anyone agree? I'm still heartbroken, but yet so glad I was able to leave. It would not have been good to stay roped in that grueling, painful situation. I also feel very silly and ridiculous, thinking back how MUCH it meant to me.
Can anyone relate?
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I can absolutely relate as that's how it was with my blank slate T. I was so obsessed with knowing about this woman that I couldn't think straight. I thought about her 24/7 and googled her extensively sand it interfered with my job. I never thought that I could move on from her and I can't believe how attached I was and how ridiculous it all was. When you are in it, it is very intense and feels very real. It is so hard to explain, but it is a big relief being on the other side of it!
I have an awesome therapist now who will answer my questions if I ask and my life is running much more smoothly.
Great thread, thanks.