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Old Sep 10, 2017, 10:59 PM
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"And when we get that daddy and mommy that should have been, we stay in therapy. It is then a permanent act-out on both their parts. The doctor gets the glory and adulation, while the patient gets a kind, concerned doctor/parent. It is addictive for both and that is why it lasts and lasts."


my ex-T fed off the admiration and glory i was serving him. and i was obsessively dependent on the crumbs he fed me in return. he loved it until the day when i dared to 'bite the hand that feeds me'. what i thought and felt was something important to explore in my relationship with him, he took as a wounding criticism and withheld the crumbs as punishment.
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