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Old Sep 11, 2017, 02:46 AM
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Originally Posted by GoneGirl711 View Post
All I read says the abuser sees nothing wrong with themselves and its always someone else's fault. What if he is right and in so f&%$%d up like he says and I don't realize it and just blaming him? I don't know anymore. He's right i don't have any friends, he says its because no one can stand me? Grrr ughh
I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that at one point in time you probably had friends. If you don't now it's because he's done everything he can to separate you from them.

One other thing. Even if you were totally f&%$%d up, which I don't believe for a minute, does that give him the right to abuse you? A caring partner would try to find ways to help, not hurt.

Please reach out to your therapist, a shelter, someplace for help. You don't deserve to be treated like this.
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