Thanks Ms. Rose 76 for your advice. You really helped me to see things beyond my knowledge on this kind of situation. I'm trying to widen my thoughts and I am trying to understand that his family is not like mine. He came from a broken family and his mother married another man. Who can't provide much for his mother.

I am just thinking that his mother will be my mother too when we get married legally so it wont hurt me so much if he still decides to give money to his mother. I just don't like the idea of becoming a villain in his relationship with his mom. I don't want to feel awkward and guilty when I meet his mom.

I will tell my husband to give them money so they could start their own small business to feed themselves for a lifetime..

I truly appreciate your advise Ms. Rose and for all the friends who gave their comments and advises above. Thank you very much!

God Bless!