I guess the pills are not like antibiotics, to where you take them until they kill the cooties and youre cured. Its more like, you have an ongoing condition, like high blood pressure, and you take these pills to CONTROL the condition, and you might have to take them forever unless something happens to CHANGE the existing chronic condition.
Also there are pads, like for your period, but especially for leaks.
I hate that feeling of such a full bladder. I got a really bad bladder infection one time, i forget from what, i just remember it felt like i was sitting on a football! And now some of the fancy new cars have heated seats? I HATE those - they just make me feel like i have to go!
Sorry we werent more help.