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Originally Posted by ephemeralfeelings
Thank you all for your responses. I'd like to add that our appointments never feel as if we have crossed any line or boundary, but more like two friends...maybe this is the answer to my problem. But I've grown to trust her and really appreciate what she has to say. I guess....I guess I wish she didn't disclose to me as much (but I totally embrace it). I know quite a bit about her in our short time together. Which is making it difficult for me not to be attracted to her. She seems to point out our commonalities often...Maybe I'm just interpreting it all wrong, but I'm feeling like maybe I should bring this up. I'm just not sure I'm ready to find someone new yet.
Agh.
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I think it is highly inappropriate the she brings up your commonalities, that she tells you a lot about herself, she revealed that she is a lesbian and that she told you that you are attracted to her age group (as far as I recall you saying here). Practically seems like she is dropping hints to date you!!! She is crossing professional boundaries left and right, and if I were you, I would be prepared to find a new therapist. This is not healthy or professional. Sorry to be so blunt. ((((hugs)))) and best wishes.
