Hey guys thanks for all your support
His not the insensitive type, I just don't think he quite understood how much it was effecting me, he ended up using head phones and it has been great!
Also he has two children to another lady and I have a daugher to another man, so we both fully understand how babys are.
As for quite time with the baby, with my daugher I made sure there was noise and now she sleep through anything.
I think I am starting to understand my partner takes a little longer to get the picture rather then insensitive haha! Maybe our communication needs to be worked on.
But I was very close... very close to smashing the TV haha!!