I had write a transference for my attachment therapist. It was very uncomfortable to tell her. She was holding me and did not want to let me go until I could get it out what I had to say. She did not want to break the embrace because she felt that I would feel rejected once I told her about the ET. We processed my feelings about my erotic transference for her and then she let me down gently.

I was not crippled by the experience at all. In fact it felt freeing once we talked about it. She reminded me she was responsible for holding the boundary. Nothing, such as touch, was taken away from me because of my admission of ET. I also believe that ET became an issue because of my reading it on this forum and assumed that that was a part of therapy at some point. That could also have been the reason why it went away so quickly.