I too have had a lot of abuse from all attachment figures in childhood and haven't had a positive attachment with anyone in my life. I liked my therapist but don't think I was attached to her. We had our final termination session this morning because she is leaving her practice. I haven't seen her for a really long time, only 8 months I suppose.
Parts of me are sad they won't get to go to her room anymore (they do see it as a safe place) but we are not devastated by the loss.
Oh, some parts say they are pretty upset.
Meh. I don't know.