I have lots of fetishes. What I call a fetish others may call a kink.
I can have sex without incorporating these fetishes but much prefer it if I do.
Some of my fetishes do not require having sex or masturbation to be fulfilled by it.

My fetishes in order of importance to me.
Gloves (particularly rubber)
Crash fetish (dressed in specific motorcycle gear)
Gas masks
**** sex (with or without scat)
Water sports (squirting)
Some bondage
High boots (on women)
Wellies

I enjoy some aspects of BDSM with my partner but we are in no way part of the "lifestyle" nor are we ever likely to be.