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Old Sep 13, 2017, 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Trace14 View Post
I agree, it's easier for eye contact with others, I think. Haven't really paid attention to that, but I will. Yes, with the T it's so different, but why? I'm there to share and get help, but it's like I'm trying to keep them out. Kind of defeating the purpose I think. Is it trust? Shame? Embarrassment? Feeling vulnerable? Truly complex.
I think I can put my armour on out work. I am in control of the conversation. With T, it's like someone peering deeper into the actual "me". I hate being noticed in this way. I think partly shame and also because I have no idea of how to be the centre of attention.
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