I'm not obsessed with my T but I am very attached to her and she is the person I want to talk to when I am struggling/upset etc. I think because I have told her things, and trusted her with stuff that I have never spoken about to anyone else in my whole life. I agree the relationship is A symmetrical.. I don't think she even cares about me to be honest, although I think she cares about helping me get to a good place as I pay her to do that. I used to think she cared about me as a person but that was when she used to say she was proud of me, I was doing well, say she was there outside of sessions if I needed her .. but she hasn't said any of those things for a while so it doesn't feel like she cares now. Having said that I overthink everything and get paranoid about a lot of things.