I'm not a child molester - since when did dating young adult women become a problem. I know a lot of men who date much younger women. Painful, maybe, fetish I disagree. If you're both adults and in love then I don't see what the big deal is. I wouldn't condemn somebody for dating out of their general age range. I think this is judgmental and not very helpful. Now if you're engaged in criminal activity that's different.... thanks!