I'm glad you have answers which comfort you and fit your experiences of this world. I've learned different secrets. I've learned that if people want something from you, they will take it by force. If it's not the kind of thing that can be taken, they will attempt to destroy it. I used to believe that all people were good deep down, that love and understanding were what people needed. This is not true, some people, MANY people are not good at all....many people are horrible and dangerous and crossing paths with them will ruin you for life. I've learned the importance of protecting yourself and being very discriminating on who should be allowed to be a part of my life. In a perfect world, love and unity would be the secret......I wish I lived in a world where it was but in the world I've been shown, protecting oneself is the real secret. (((Hugs)))