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MentalFloss, did you ever tell him you had a video you wanted to watch and explain you wanted cuddling or whatever you wanted for comfort?

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Of course. We'd planned the evening for a couple of days, and had discussed quite explicitly how much I was looking forward to the comfort of being close with him and being in his arms. He said he was looking forward to that, too.

We did talk about this at the time, as well. Or rather, I talked, he argued that he needed to answer the phone. "Answering" doesn't adequately describe the length of the conversations, though, so that's pure sophistry. He could've answered and said, "I'm sorry, I need to be here for my girlfriend right now," or words to that effect - but that would require the desire to be there for me, which he'd given me the impression that he had.

I stayed because by the time we'd finished arguing and he'd finished the last phone conversation, it was too late to catch a train. I'd have preferred to go home, having found that I really should have in the first place, and did that first thing in the morning.