This is a timely question for me. I'm female, and as of a few days ago I was seeing a female T and a male marriage counselor. I've been dealing with some negative maternal transference stuff with T and some pretty strong (generally positive/idealized) paternal (and a bit of erotic) transference for MC. I haven't had too much success dealing with the transference (for either) with current T. So I recently contacted another T to see for a bit while I take a break from current T. He's male. So, I guess starting next week, male T (assuming he works out) and male MC. I often find it easier to talk to men than women, incidentally.