I am feeling a lack of control. No one in this house picks up after themselves. There is a desk sitting in the middle of our living room floor and a bunch of unwanted stuff piled in our bedroom. Why do other family members think that dumping there warn out crap at our house because we "need it". If it is so full of holes you can't wear it then throw it in the dumpster. I am OCD and if things are not organized I can not sleep and I get more and more upset about it.