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Old Sep 14, 2017, 10:06 PM
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I had erotic transference for my last t and I finally admitted it to him near our last session. He was very considerate and kind about it. He did not shame me or even say it could never happen. He just listened then encouraged me to get out there and meet people.
He was never unethical and never made a move myself. It stayed safe and ended well.

I am in a new state and have a t here. I have moments where the am attracted to him but his sexual orientation makes the animal in me a little dazed and confused. I surprised myself that I could feel anything resembling sexual attraction towards him but I do have the odd moment here and there. But not as all powerful as last t

I miss old t but I am fond of new t too. So the Et is not hurting me, just confusing sometimes