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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
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The last two Fridays have been marked by upsetting communications. I was hoping this Friday would be different, but no--divorce lawyer sent decree to sign, into which future ex as one of the points of agreement managed to work in his poor health as a reason for not yet reclaiming his possessions.
Which makes me feel dreadful and awful and guilty all over again. And is now at least semi-public record.
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a. Future ex's health ain't your problem.
b. (And, possibly more importantly) Please do consider vastly discounting the severity of the health issues.
If you think people aren't capable of doing that, I am more than happy to provide you with excruciating detail on the various ways in which multiple people have pulled that crap on me. It's rather astonishing -- to the point that current T and I have discussed in some detail as to whether said people's health-related nonsense is malingering or a factitious disorder.
Consider talking about future ex's (multiple and prolonged, I'm sure) health issues with Info. I'll bet it'll be enlightening. For what it's worth, I absolutely refused to believe well-wishers when they told me I was being fooled big time -- took me, I dunno, maybe most of my life to figure it out myself?