Hey - I'm the same way about my dad, and it's even more sacrilegious for me to say so because he's on his deathbed...
But if it weren't for HIS personality, I wouldn't have MY personality so I suppose I should be grateful. In many ways, he has been a role model of how I do not want to be. He does have some positive qualities, but for the most part...
I understand, Rainbowzz