Are you working with an attorney? I'm concerned about your assets if he turns bitter. I'm happy for you for setting such a life changing goal and meeting that goal. I watched the most drawn out, lengthy legal battle over a home purchased with a modest inheritance between my father and stepmom. It lasted two years. I'd hate to see this turn as sour, not that my father isn't prone to some very dramatic twists and turns where his love life is concerned.

Protect yourself, is my advice.