I am STILL having trouble with this issue -- ARGH! She skyped me again this morning about something stupid and went on about herself as usual, not asking about me at all. I am tired of this, but I cannot stop myself from replying to her and being "nice".

I've decided I have a real problem with being far too nice, to the point of harming myself. Why can't I just back out of this and be done with this friendship as I want to be?