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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
So I'm seeing that new T Tuesday. Current/possibly soon to be former T had said she could talk to him to fill him in. And I assume MC would say the same, particularly because they all know each other. I understand why in some ways this could be helpful, just so he can get background info and stuff. But my instincts are saying to not allow them to talk to him. Partly because I'll be talking about them to him. But also so he can get a more unbiased opinion of me (and the situation). Does that make sense? I suspect he'll ask at the appointment...
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I'm definitely with your instincts on this one. I feel like part of the problem for you with the way things are is the way the relationships are blurred and the connections that T and MC have with each other. I don't think they need to be further involved with new T. You can give him the background, and I'm sure he'd prefer to hear it from you anyway.