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Originally Posted by lucozader
I'm definitely with your instincts on this one. I feel like part of the problem for you with the way things are is the way the relationships are blurred and the connections that T and MC have with each other. I don't think they need to be further involved with new T. You can give him the background, and I'm sure he'd prefer to hear it from you anyway.
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Thanks, Luco. I think you're right. I mean, if we reach some point where it does seem like it could be helpful for him to talk to T or MC, then we can cross that bridge at the time. I can always decide later to have him talk to one or both of them, but once he does, I can't undo it (well, I could revoke permission for him to talk to them, but he'd already know whatever they said). Honestly, when T was saying "I can talk to him if you want," it felt almost a little controlling...but then that might be the negative maternal transference...