Frustrated. My cousin Sarah keeps Facebook messengering me to want me to do things with her. Sarah doesn't work so she has plenty of time. I have turned her down repeatedly and she doesn't get the hint. The truth is... she makes me feel bad. Spending time with her makes me feel bad for weeks afterward. She is a know it all and always talks down to me. She also acts like I have some agoraphobia disease and that is why I don't go out with her. So when we are out she will ask things like "are you ok". I just cannot get her to stop. And I can't figure out a way to get out of it. I should remove her from Facebook completely but I like her enough that I want to see what is going on in her life. I just cannot tell her the truth because I know it would hurt her feelings.

On that note, I have the same problem in my job. I have a co worker that I just really don't like. She acts like I have a real problem with her barging into my office but, that isn't really it... I just don't really like her. I would prefer a much less close relationship with her but she just isn't getting it. At one point we ended up in the cafeteria at the same time for lunch and then, she would check in to see if I wanted to walk with her to the cafeteria and then we would eat seperately, now she keeps wanting to eat together. I have managed to stop that but she keeps pushing. And doesn't get the hint. Friday I "cheated" on her and went to lunch with another friend and she was hurt. And what did I get? She blabbed a few things to get me into trouble. Out loud she said that I said something about someone else, that I didn't say. She absolutely did that on purpose to embarrass me. I corrected it but... can you say manipulation? Everytime she sees me when I am trying to avoid her she goes "are you ok?" making it like I am sick or something because I don't want to talk to her.

You will notice both these people enjoy saying "are you ok" -- to me that is code for.. if you reject me, I will make you out to be a nut.

Anyway, really kind of had it... and am about to take a nutty.