Oh yeah I have met same exact people.
I like how they think something is wrong with you because you don't want to see them.
I knew this woman who wanted to be friends but I just didn't like her company (too negative know it all type) plus I was too busy at the time. So I'd tell her that unfortunately I am too busy at this time, which I really was. I eventually stopped responding to her phone calls so when she finally got me to answer the phone she asked if the reason I don't go out with her is that I am depressed. It was so bizzare my jaw dropped. First of all I have never been depressed in my life, I am not prone to depression and second of all how is me not wanting to do things whth her translates to ME having a depression?
I also had a coworker (she eventually was transferred to a different building as principal had enough of her nonsense) who was mad that me and other colleague, who I am friends with outside of work, would go to lunch or dinner without her. On our own time! Not work time! It was crazy. One day we had half day and left at noon so instead of going home we went to lunch. She overheard us I guess and went to board office to file grievances against us. I am not kidding. Of course she wasn't allowed to file grievances against colleagues who meet up AFTER work hours to do whatever the heck they want.
What's wrong with some people?
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