The one thing I can tell you Coral is to cherish every minute that you get to spend with your kids and wife...it has taken me four months of separation from my wife and kids to realize how lucky I am to have such wonderful people in my life. Being a stay at home parent is a very tough job...when you go to work you are around people that can talk to you on the same level as yourself...when your wife is at home and the kids are there the only real conversation she will get is when you get home or she goes out with her friends...If you broke down everything that your wife does in the house she would be making almost ten times more than you do...not that I am trying to make exscuses, it is just the way it is...