I didn't empty the dishwasher because I wasn't sure if it had been run or not, and the dogs hadn't been walked because I can't handle both the rambunctious puppy and the pokey elderly puggle at the same time. I had one bowl by the sink with a spoon in it from breakfast and one dish that I used for supper that was sitting on the coffee table. I also had a bottle of water sitting on the island where I put it before walking the dogs. It's not like there were piles of filthy dishes everywhere.

Jennifer is right, he has lost his temper a handful of times to the point of getting physical with me when I was a defenseless child. He has an anger management problem that he needs to get help for, and using me as his proverbial and literal whipping boy isn't acceptable.