ya I understand...I do cherish our time together,and it is mostly good....

she does have friends that she talks to on the phone and go's out shoping and all, but I quess even then she has to bring our youngest one along

We usaully get along great, and she constantly reminds me I am stuck with her no matter what, but I quess after being with someone so long you start to get a little...well...whats a good word??

We do allot together ..we probably go on vaction atleast 3-4 times a year...and I feel she has it made compared to most of her friends some with husbands that treat them like crap in my opinion and spend little time with their kids...

I just wish she would listen to how I feel if I ever do have something to say about her...since I really don't have much choice if I want to listen to her or not...I quess it has allot to do with how she was raised ....her mother is very overbearing..and her father just takes it

oh well..atleast I got you guys to listen

thanks