This is big, Sol
"In regards to your present struggle, I'd have you recognize that this may prove the most essential part of the work you have to do -- to tolerate, explore, and ultimately accept that tension between becoming absolutely attached and rejecting/fleeing. Realize that there is nothing remarkable going on around you at this moment, so the suffering you're feeling is a pure reflection of that dynamic. Breathe, be still, and realize that there really is nothing you have to do right now to be ok."

He's showing middle ground - to tolerate and be between attachment and fleeing. That is very powerful and i thin something all our T's probably try to teach us. That is one to print and put up on the wall for future crisis... may i do the same?
kiya