Cyran0 is right. You are the only one that can stand up and say, 'either stop as what you are doing is hurting me or i will have to leave.' You do not have to put up with that no matter who it is doing it, be it family or strangers. The more they hurt you the further into yourself you are going to go. I am sorry. I know that is hard and if it is impossible to leave, take a mp3 player and put it on tone them out, whatever it takes to protect yourself...~melanie