In answer to you OP,I generally can ignore if someone is teasing me. Being picked on? I ignore it or if it bugs me, I tell them. Sometimes I hold it in and freak out on mean people.

I just got in a FB fight, with my snobby neighbor. And I called her a B****. She said "did you call me a name?"

I replied "Yes, after you were snide, i did call you a name and I am going to do it again. B****."