I want to say too, I'm hearing a lot of excuses as to why you couldn't do things instead of solutions so that you get your stuff done. You can't walk the dogs yourself together. So walk them individually. You can handle one at a time, right? You don't know if the dishes are clean or dirty, so run the dishwasher again, it only takes like 45 minutes and then you can dry the dishes and put them away. If anything, hand wash you couple of dishes and put them away. I don't mind breakfast dishes still being in the sink in the evening, as I do all dishes in the evening anyways, but I live alone, so I make my own rules.

Again, not condoning his emotional blackmailing and bad behavior, but I think you can do things to help the whole family situation. To me it seems like this is a matter of multiple people doing things that bother each other, and all could behave better and do more to help alleviate stress for each other.

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