Why do you two say mania versus hypomania? I experience nearly all of that except the financial bits. Even that I would like to do and I make unplanned small purchases, just not big ticket items. Those I discuss and accept having them shot down (not happily). Might be a difference in who runs the house ("wears the pants"). It's not me...
And the sex part is pretty much me alone; wife has lost interest and I am not happy about it.
So with those exception my list is close to the same.