I called my pss cause i was stressed out.

I told her i felt like i needed a drink and that i felt like i needed sex to unwind. Sex and a drink.

She said its not fair to do that to the new guy. She said its like using him. That i wouldnt be happy if a guy did that to me.

She said i need to take care of myself and leave him out of my bad choices, because we still need to take it slow.

I value her opinion. And when i thought about it i kinda would be using him for sex because i just need it to unwind right now.

Obviously having a drink is out of the question.